21. Golfer. Girls.
Lindsey Owens.
my future 9 year old child reading Harry Potter: I love this mommy
me: great but stay open minded and critical and don’t take everything at face value. I have prepared discussion questions
“You must learn her.
You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there. You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to.
You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.
And, this is how you keep her.
”
Junot Díaz, This Is How You Lose Her (via quotes-shape-us)
do you ever just listen to someone’s problem and you have nothing to say except “I’m sorry” becuase there is literally no way for you to help and you get sucked into a vortex of guilt and despair because you are useless
“If there is something I have learnt about love, it is that you cannot seek it in other people. Do not love someone out of loneliness. Do not love them out of desperation in hopes that they will fill whatever gaping words lie within you. You cannot truly and selflessly love someone the way they deserve to be loved until you have found that in your own self. It’s quite like being thrown out to sea. You couldn’t possibly save your lover in the water while you are drowning in it too.” - @lynngvnn
“ I don’t accept apologies, you did what made you happy at the expense of my emotions and I understand, but I won’t respect it. ”
The Weekend
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